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 Posted: Tue Nov 17, 2009 11:47 am
Wow his wife looks real happy in that photo  And way to give that twit free advertising CTV. Hey, did you know that breaking into your neighbour's home while they are out, and stealing all their shit will result in having a closer relationship with your neighbour? Sorry Mr. Ashley Madison but betrayal RARELY brings people closer together.
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Brenda
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Posted: Tue Nov 17, 2009 11:49 am
I guess the guilt makes them "better partners"...
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Brenda
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Posted: Tue Nov 17, 2009 12:15 pm
gonavy47 gonavy47: Brenda Brenda: gonavy47 gonavy47: Swingers are weak assholes who don't have the guts or selflessness to maintain a relationship with one person. Selfish assholes, that's all. Swinging is a mutual agreement. Cheating is not. Swinging is NOT always a "mutual agreement". Many times the spouse is co-erced into complying with their mate's wishes. It's still a sick fucking way to live. It's a choice the spouse makes. You can go along, or not. You can accept your spouse is cheating on you, or not. The moment you "comply", it's a mutual agreement.
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Posted: Tue Nov 17, 2009 12:41 pm
Yah, I don't think I'll take the advice of someone known as the Infedelity Guru.
Sorry folks but if the communication is so lacking in your relationship that you feel you need to cheat then maybe you should not have married in the first place (or maybe just try talking to each other).
As far a swinging goes, well it's a matter of preference, some people go for it some don't. For myself I wouldn't want anyone else to be with my wife, thats just gross.
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Posts: 2074
Posted: Tue Nov 17, 2009 2:51 pm
"The moment you comply, it's a mutual agreement." If a person is forced against their will to participate in a lifestyle not of their choosing, by way of physical, emotional, or economic pressure, then it is abuse, and is against the law. If someone is holding a gun to your head, so you decide to go along, is that mutual acceptance? Obviously not. Not all these "swingers" are there on their own free will.
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Brenda
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Posted: Tue Nov 17, 2009 2:53 pm
You can always walk out. It is your choice if you don't.
If your spouse forces you to do anything against your will, you have an abusive relationship, period. They only way to stop that, is if YOU stop it. By getting out.
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Akhenaten
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Posted: Tue Nov 17, 2009 2:55 pm
"Cheating makes 'better partners,' infidelity guru says"
This only applies if you're the one cheating and it's a secret.
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Posted: Tue Nov 17, 2009 3:44 pm
Proculation Proculation: gonavy47 gonavy47: Brenda Brenda: Swinging is a mutual agreement. Cheating is not. Swinging is NOT always a "mutual agreement". Many times the spouse is co-erced into complying with their mate's wishes. It's still a sick fucking way to live. Maybe because i'm of a new generation but I see nothing wrong of having more than one partner if both persons agree. We are no longer in 1900. Me either, I see nothing wrong with it. For these swingers, its just sex. The love each other but have sex with other people. If you dont hurt yourself or anyone else no-ones f'n business.
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Posted: Tue Nov 17, 2009 8:28 pm
Swingers usually have a deep self-loathing that compels them to find acceptance by others through sex. They are self-absorbed and have great difficulty maintaining lasting and meaningful relationships, because they never put their partner's interests before their own.
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Brenda
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Posted: Tue Nov 17, 2009 8:30 pm
I so disagree with that "swingers usually"... You have stats or is it an opinion?
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Posted: Tue Nov 17, 2009 8:30 pm
gonavy47 gonavy47: Swingers usually have a deep self-loathing that compels them to find acceptance by others through sex. They are self-absorbed and have great difficulty maintaining lasting and meaningful relationships, because they never put their partner's interests before their own. And here I thought it was all fun and games. Although your description kinda reminds me of some wardrooms I sailed under.
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Posted: Tue Nov 17, 2009 8:35 pm
Brenda Brenda: I so disagree with that "swingers usually"... You have stats or is it an opinion? Unfortunately, ex-family experience.
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Brenda
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Posted: Tue Nov 17, 2009 8:36 pm
gonavy47 gonavy47: Brenda Brenda: I so disagree with that "swingers usually"... You have stats or is it an opinion? Unfortunately, ex-family experience. So that is just one asshole who couldn't keep his dick to himself and thought he might want to share his wife. Okay, I get that. Doesn't mean ALL swingers are like that. Most are actually honest and choose a person to share their life with that fits their lifestyle... Which makes it a mutual agreement.
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Posted: Tue Nov 17, 2009 8:37 pm
Freakinoldguy Freakinoldguy: gonavy47 gonavy47: Swingers usually have a deep self-loathing that compels them to find acceptance by others through sex. They are self-absorbed and have great difficulty maintaining lasting and meaningful relationships, because they never put their partner's interests before their own. And here I thought it was all fun and games. Although your description kinda reminds me of some wardrooms I sailed under. I would go for fun and games too. Well, from my experience and the people i've met.
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Posted: Tue Nov 17, 2009 8:47 pm
Proculation Proculation: Maybe because i'm of a new generation but I see nothing wrong of having more than one partner if both persons agree. We are no longer in 1900. Wasn't it the old age that was more into swinging? Like the 1960's? I thought it was the new 'modern' age that had all the prudes?
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